Start close in,
don’t take the second step
or the third,
start with the first
thing
close in,
the step
you don’t want to take.
Start with
the ground
you know,
the pale ground
beneath your feet,
your own
way to begin
the conversation.
About Invitas
The Institute for Conversational Leadership
Our purpose
The Institute for Conversational Leadership was created as a response to the extreme challenges confronting leaders, to enable individuals to meet the complexities and stresses of the organizational world while living a life worth living at the center of all the effort.
Our approach
Conversational leadership emphasizes keen attention, self-discipline, and a certain kind of artistry in engaging and communicating with others.
Conversational leadership does not mean indulging in endless talking but rather identifying and engaging with the crucial and often courageous exchanges that facilitate meaningful change.
It begins with a leader understanding that one of their critical functions in shaping and evolving an organization or community is to consciously address the essential conversations which form how people think and act.
Many of these conversations go unspoken in public settings, remaining unaddressed because they often reveal the conflicts or tensions that lie below the surface, bringing controversy and disagreement in their wake.
It takes courage for a leader to step into this territory, as it asks them to let go of control and open up to the input and differences of others.
The traditional approach is for the leader to figure out what is right, and then persuade others to do it. Alternatively, engaging in conversational leadership is to “invite what you do not expect”, bringing you to the frontier of what is emerging in your organization and asking you to turn into it, rather than away from it.
from ‘Start Close In’ by David Whyte